Anti-Ship and Other Stuff
the purpose of this modlist is to help people who align with ideals such as pro-ship, pro-fiction, anti-harassment, anti-censorship, don't like don't read, ship and let ship, your kink is not my kink (and that's ok), or similar curate a safer and more drama-free bsky experience, and avoid people who mutually prefer not to share a space with us. it's for mass-blocking (or mass-muting) and moving on.being on the modlist isn't a "punishment," and is in fact beneficial to you if you're someone who's not out to harass. if you don't want proshippers to interact, and you're on here, you're getting your wish, because they won't even see your account. everyone wins! (except harassers, who lose access to would-be targets and lose the ability to dogpile them.)(if you're a non-fannish person who ended up here and has no idea what's going on, the anti-fan archive at fujoshi.info is a good resource to learn what an anti-shipper is and why so many of us want to block them.)
List Criteria
i only add people for the reasons listed here. if someone claims to have been added for a different reason, or for a thing i've outright said doesn't get you added, they're either lying or mistaken.i add people if their behavior on any platform warrants it, not just bluesky. the list is manually maintained, and i only add accounts after personal verification.please note: the name of the list is "anti-ship and other stuff," not "anti-ship and nothing else." i add people who meet the criteria regardless of if they identify as an anti.
Things that Get You Added
➼ identifying as antiship, "anti-proship," an anti to a specific kink, or similar.➼ moralizing over ships, kinks, or engagement with art/fiction. (ex: conflating portrayal with endorsement; insulting people for their kinks; claiming liking x character, y show, or z ship makes you a bad person, etc.)➼ engaging in ship/kink discourse on the anti side, or parroting anti talking points. (check the anti-fan archive, linked on the carrd's main page, for examples.)➼ engaging in or boosting harassment campaigns over art, fiction, or kink, including by liking or reblogging callouts. or, expressing that these campaigns are justified, or that the victims deserve it.➼ a stated dislike of or desire not to interact with proshippers. (ex: "proship dni" or "ew i saw a proshipper in this tag," etc.)➼ "neutral" stances that amount to shaming or victim blaming people who've been harmed by antis. ex: saying victims of antiship harassment are "just as bad" as their harassers; saying victims of stalking, harassment, doxxing, and so on should just "touch grass;" implying it's shameful, drama-mongering, or "cringe" for harassment victims to talk openly about their experiences or for others to support those victims; etc.
Things that MIGHT Get You Added
for these, i look at the full context of the account and make a judgement call. i lean heavily towards not adding ambiguous cases, because i prioritize avoiding false positives over casting the widest possible net.➼ having the sort of vague dni criteria that antishippers often use to dogwhistle their position. (ex: "freaks dni")➼ "neutral" stances that are clearly and openly proship-hostile, even if they're also hostile to antis.➼ hitting like on posts that unambiguously fall under the definite block criteria. (i only do this for especially egregious posts, like ones advocating for violence, or callout posts.)
Things that DO NOT Get You Added
➼ having a squick, trigger, hard limit, or notp. expressing in a non-stigmatizing, non-moralizing way that you don't want to interact with accounts that post specific material.➼ critical, non-stigmatizing discussion of sexuality and sexual hegemony, including critiques of sexual norms in culture, of the mainstream porn industry, and so on.➼ critical or negative discussion of mass media. ("i found the fanservice in x anime tonally jarring" isn't a moral condemnation or a call for censorship.)➼ opposition to, or criticism of, hate speech, propaganda, or similar.➼ being against real life sexual abuse, real life relationships between adults and minors, and so on. (i am obviously also against these things. come on.)➼ not using a specific label ("proship" or otherwise), or self-describing as neutral.➼ being on someone else's antiship (etc) modlist.
Removal & Submissions
if you believe you, or someone else, has been added mistakenly, dm me with your concerns. i don't bite, and i'll be happy to review my decision. note that i'll only remove you if i made a mistake (i'm careful, but it's happened before), or if you no longer hold whatever views/behavior got you on here. please read the addition criteria before inquiring about removal.(i'm subscribed to my own blocklist, so you'll have to message me from an alt or have a friend do it. i know that's clunky, and i apologize for that! i hope to make the process smoother in the future.)submissions are accepted and appreciated, but i'll only add accounts if i can see the evidence they meet the criteria with my own eyes.i also welcome messages from people who want to be added. if you're sincere about wanting proshippers to dni, being included in a mass-block is the most efficient and effective way to do that.note that i reserve the right not to engage with people who are abusive or threatening to me.