Antiship (etc) Blocklist Info
the purpose of this modlist is to help people who align with ideals such as pro-ship, pro-fiction, anti-harassment, anti-censorship, the three laws of fandom, or similar curate a safer and more drama-free bsky experience, and avoid people who prefer not to share a space with us. it's for quietly blocking (or muting, if preferred) and moving on.being on the modlist isn't a "punishment," an insult, or a condemnation of you as a person. it's actually mutually beneficial, because it means you're less likely to see people and content you'd find objectionable. lists like this help us proshippers respect the boundaries of others.(if you're a non-fannish person who ended up here and has no idea what's going on, the anti-fan archive at fujoshi.info is a good resource to learn what an anti-shipper is and why so many of us want to block them.)
List Criteria
i only add people for the reasons listed here. if someone claims to have been added for a different reason, or for a thing i've outright said doesn't get you added, they're either mistaken (nbd, it happens) or lying. i add people if their behavior on any platform warrants it, not just bluesky.this list contains multiple things. no one is accusing you, or anyone else, of the entire list. sometimes people get upset to be on here, because they think they're being "labeled as an anti," accused of harassment, or so on. but if those aren't the reason you were added, those don't apply to you.
Things that Get You Added
➼ identifying as antiship, "anti-proship," an anti to a specific kink, or similar.➼ moralizing over ships, kinks, or engagement with art/fiction. (ex: conflating portrayal with endorsement; claiming liking x character, y show, or z ship makes you a bad or dangerous person; etc.)➼ insulting or denigrating people for their ships, kinks, or the art/fiction they engage with. (no exceptions. it's been my experience that people often think that fictional ageplay material - such as loli/shota/cub art - "doesn't count." it does.)➼ engaging in ship/kink discourse on the anti side, or parroting anti talking points. (check the anti-fan archive, linked on the carrd's main page, for examples.)➼ harassment over art, fiction, or kink, whether individually or as part of a larger campaign. this list treats liking, boosting, or reblogging callouts or public shaming posts as participating in a harassment campaign. or, expressing that this sort of harassment is justified/deserved.➼ a stated dislike of, disdain for, or desire not to interact with proshippers. (ex: "proship dni," "ew, i saw a proshipper in this tag," "proshippers are annoying," etc)➼ "neutral" stances that amount to shaming or victim blaming people who've been harmed by antis. (ex: saying victims of antiship harassment are "just as bad" as their harassers; saying victims of stalking, harassment, doxxing, and so on should just "touch grass;" implying it's shameful, drama-mongering, or "cringe" for harassment victims to talk openly about their experiences or for others to support those victims; etc.)➼ "neutral" stances that are clearly and openly proship-hostile, even if they're also hostile to antis.
Things that MIGHT Get You Added
for these, i look at the full context of the account and make a judgement call. i lean heavily towards not adding ambiguous cases, because i prioritize avoiding false positives over casting the widest possible net.➼ having the sort of vague dni criteria that antishippers often use to dogwhistle their position. (ex: "freaks dni")➼ hitting like on posts that unambiguously fall under the definite block criteria. (i only do this for especially egregious posts, like ones advocating for violence, or callout posts.)
Things that DO NOT Get You Added
➼ having a squick, trigger, hard limit, or notp. expressing in a non-derogatory, non-moralizing way that you don't want to see specific material or interact with accounts that post it. (no, you were not added "because you don't want to see incest.")➼ critical, non-stigmatizing discussion of sexuality and sexual hegemony, including critiques of sexual norms in culture, of the mainstream porn industry, and so on.➼ critical or negative discussion of mass media/commercial media. ("i found the fanservice in x anime tonally jarring" isn't a moral condemnation or a call for censorship.)➼ opposition to, or criticism of, hate speech, propaganda, or similar.➼ being against sexual abuse, inappropriate relationships between adults and minors, and so on. (i am obviously also against these things. come on. be serious.)➼ not using a specific label ("proship" or otherwise), or self-describing as neutral.➼ being on someone else's antiship (etc) modlist.➼ posts over two years old at time of addition, unless accompanied by more recent evidence suggesting the user hasn't changed their stance.➼ if you've read this far and you intend to DM me about removal, please include the codeword "opossum" in your message, so i know you read it. i would appreciate it, because then i know we're on the same page.
Removal & Submissions
if you believe you, or someone else, has been added mistakenly, dm me (splitscard.bsky.social) with your concerns. i don't bite, and i'll be happy to review my decision. note that i'll only remove you if i made a mistake (i'm careful, but it's happened before), or if you no longer hold whatever views/behavior got you on here. please read the addition criteria before asking about removal.(i'm subscribed to my own blocklist, so you'll have to message me from an alt or have a friend do it. i know that's clunky, and i apologize for that.)submissions are accepted and appreciated, but i'll only add accounts if i can see the evidence they meet the criteria with my own eyes. i prefer links to screenshots, but do accept both.i also welcome messages from people who want to be added. if you're sincere about wanting proshippers to dni, being included in a mass-block is the most efficient and effective way to do that.i reserve the right not to engage with people who treat me in a disrespectful, abusive, or threatening way. i am a real person who's trying my best, just like you.